Q: My boyfriend wants me to get a tattoo of his name. I love him and plan on marrying him one day, but you never know what will happen... How do I tell him I'm not ready for this commitment without hurting his feelings?

A: I agree with you, this is quite a commitment to make. If you're into the idea of having a tattoo, you could suggest that you pick out a design together – one that doesn't have his name on it, but that has a special meaning for you both. If you're not one for ink, explain that it's not part of your value system, and although you love him, there are other things that could be done to show this love.