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expert answer on cheating
Q: Should I Believe Him?
Q: I caught my husband taking condoms on a business trip. He says he uses them when masturbating as he doesn't want to make a mess on the hotel's bedding. Should I believe him?
A: The point of this column is for me to explain what a guy's point of view might be in certain situations, but this does sound a bit dodgy, doesn't it? Perhaps the only mitigating factor here would be if you were married to Rain Man. Is he already a little OCD in his sexual habits? Do you have sex on rubber sheets? Why on earth he'd be concerned about a hotel's sheets is beyond me, unless of course (duh), he's spermatophobic: afraid of his own semen. It's a recognised condition, but one that I wager is less common in men than it is in women. If not, he's a cheat and you need to call him on it.
Last updated: Wed, 2010-10-13 12:38
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Okay, question, have you only caught him with the condoms or have there been anything els that you can point a finger, I'm asking because I have had 2 men cheat on me. Things like not wanting you to use his phone or putting the phone on silent when you are around?
No man behaving like this is trustworthy! Don't be gullible!
Good question...but!
He can be having one night stands as its a business trip and far away from home. Thus there'll be no phone calls.
* condoms & business trip = cheating
no further questions required
Umm I'd say he's cheating.. that is really a very lame excuse! Don't believe his lies, you're worth more than that.
He is cheating take all his clothes and burn them and get urself a good divorce lawyer. what a pathetic excuse. he is cheating and very soon he willstop using the condoms and he will bring home things that divorce lawyers cant fix get out now. dnt wait around for him to ruin your life further
Your partner is lying to you. Confront him and do not believe the load of crap that he is feeding you. I did. Been there, their lies just seem so plausible that you actually doubt your own intelligence. They spin a web to keep you but want to just play around. Men are bastards!!
Men are weak, they give in to temptation.
Women are loyal to their commitments.
Let your husband know you are not a fool. Dump him!
If there are children involved seek counselling. Don't let him FOOL U into believing he is telling the truth.
My husband cheated this year after 9 years together. We have two very young children, thus he has his second chance.
There won't be a third chance. I'm worth more than that.
I think he is cheating, no man take condoms along unless there is a reason to use them, and come on, its not because he doesnt want to mess the sheets for goodness sake! He could easily just use a towel or toilet paper to clean up a spill ( chances are he'l cum in his hand anyway lol) Dont believe his lies, does he use a condom when he masturbates at home too? PATHETIC EXCUSE i say!
No. He intends to cheat on you. But at least now you know that if he has cheated on you before, he probably has used condoms.
Reading all comments I suggest you do nothing.It's funny how everyone always says.."leave him if he's cheating on you"..to do what? Meet another that will do the same thing?ALL men cheat at one time or another..some make it habit and even do it openly, others maybe once or twice but unfortunately it's a fact, ALL men cheat.It's like they think it's their birth right! So, if you have a nice life and he's paying for it, allow and ignore his 'little' benefits when he's out of town, make as if you know nothing and have your own 'fun', if you're not into having extramarital flings, go out on the town, flirt a little, you'll feel so much better. I wish I had taken my own advice years ago but I had too much respect for myself to stay married to a flandering man and I didn't want to have affairs..I divorced but am alone today because I can't get myself to 'love' another cheating man as most of the divorced men I have dated have all cheated on their wives when they were married and we all know, once a man has cheated on any woman, he WILL do it again.
wow...ur man is a terrible liar!he is getting laid somewhere,at least he is using protection that should at least give you some hope that he will not contract diseases from elsewhere...my advice dont stop using condoms with him!
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