men and sex on the first date

I have been dating my ex for 5 and a half years and we have been on and off within the years and i always broke up with him and then went back in 2 weeks. I broke up with him a month and a half ago because i met a very nice guy at the gym and we have been seeing each other since i broke up with my ex. He is a very nice guy and he is actually the whole package. He is a real gentleman and caring and all of the good traits. Eventhought i broke up with my ex i have been missing him alot and the reaon why i broke up with him is for another guy and also because he has a huge amount of dept that he owes his father and also the whole family is in one business and his mother was very involved in our relationship. I really wanted to move a step forward and move in with him but he wanted me to move in with him into a granny flat which is attatched to the house and it was fine but to me you need to do your own thing and his sister and her family and himself and his parents live on the same property, which is a bit much for me. So those are some of the reasons why i broke up with him and i miss him alot! I can't stop thiking about him and we had a very good time together and he stuck by me through very difficult times and we made very good friends and now that i broke up with him i lost all of my friends because i met them through him.
The guy that i am with now is really very nice and we have such great chemistry between us where i never had it with my ex and my mother says that i will be stupid if i went back to my ex and that the guy i have now is a gem.
I don't know what to do, can i go back should i go back , should i open my eyes and see what i have .
If you can help me i would really appreciate it i am in desperate need of advice as i don't have a best friend to talk to and my mother is also not a very good listener.
I sincerely ask for your advice i would appreciate it!

It's a great mistake to have sex on the first date. You do not know your partner at all. May be he has some diseases you do not know this and he, even if he has such, will not tell you about this. So, to have unprotected sex is a fatal mistake. Do not do this, or if you happened to have sex with unknown person, be sure to use a condom. Though, if you want to have lasting relationships with this person, you count on something more, do not fall into the stream of feelings and have sex on the first date.
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Sex on the first date has indeed its advantages (you know what you get instantly lol) and also its drawbacks: What your partner only wanted you for that one night but you fall in love? But generally it is for every woman herself to decide.