Sex & Relationships
The facts about female ejaculation
Female Ejaculation 101
I attended the World Congress for Sexual Health in Glasgow this last week. Can you imagine what happens when a thousand sexologists get together? We actually talk about science – the science behind sex.
I had the privilege of meeting one of the most influential sex researchers of all time – Beverly Whipple. This remarkable American scientist made three very important contributions to sex research:
- She proved the existence of the G-spot on histological level and wrote about it extensively in her book: The G-spot first published in 1983.
- She proved that there is a nerve connecting a female's cervix directly to her brain, bypassing the spinal cord, making orgasm in paralyzed women possible.
- She proved that females can and do ejaculate!
Here Are The Facts About Female Ejaculation
• It happens to some women, not all.
• It sometimes happens with orgasm, sometimes without.
• It is usually only a small amount, about a teaspoon full. It can be so little that you don't even notice it or so much that it is embarrassing.
• It comes from small glands next to the urethra where the urine comes out, not the vagina and is therefore often confused with urine.
• These glands were previously known as the Skene's glands, but are now officially called the female prostate glands.
• It looks like watered-down milk, not urine.
• It contains glucose and PSA – substances that are not found in urine.
• Some women do pass a small amount of urine during orgasm due to muscle contractions, but this is not ejaculation.
• It can sometimes be induced by 'milking' the G-spot in the same way a man's prostate can be milked to produce ejaculate without orgasm.
• It is completely normal and natural and nothing to be embarrassed about.
About this blog

Dr Elna Rudolph is the clinical head of the Intercare Centre for Sexual Health and is one of only two doctors in South Africa with a masters degree in sexual health. Her work includes sexual health check-ups, contraceptive management, the treatments of STIs as well helping patients with sexual health issues such as low libido and those who experience painful sex. She also provides medical services for the LGBT (lesbian gay bisexual and transgender) community.








Oh My ...... guava
OK learnt something today!
hahaha interesting article! My husband find it suuuper sexy and it is def not something to be embarresed about! The more the better it is for him...ego boost!
Believe me, I have NEVER EVER been embarrassed by my emissions! Oh, and for the record...I usually come 7 or 8 times in a session, usually an espresso cup full (proximately!!) in total, but it's worth mentioning that until I had my first baby and was shamed into doing my pelvic floor exercises by my health visitor, my ejaculations tended to merely dribble out. But when my pelvic floor muscles were in good condition I could spurt the stuff out up to meter!
Haha so you telling me my G-spot is gone??? I had a hysterectomy and DO NOT HAVE A CERVIX...sorry my g-spot is most def still here...so where then is it attached to???..however my donut is gone... lol just found that out...that is the roundish part of the top of the cervix or so i understand it to be. And orgasm's are no longer felt in my stomach..but all in my genitalia area...mmm guess its more like a man's orgasm now...no regrets here though!!!:)
oh yes...forgot to mention i also still ejaculate!
oh yes...forgot to mention i also still ejaculate!
This "female prostate" is situated in your vagina, not your cervix or uterus, so you will still have a G-spot and be able to ejaculate after your hysterectomy!
:-)
In November, I attended the energetic orgasm workshop - totally out of this world !
Full body orgasm occurs as the sexual energy is spread from the genital area up the body to the throat, through a combination of gentle touch and stroking the energy field above the body.
We experienced a further bonus in bringing strong orgasm to the throat area . . . with ejaculation from the thyroid gland !
Gives new meaning to the old movie 'Deep Throat' !
I love my g-spot! My pleasure spot! I am definately not ashamed when I ejaculate and drives my fiance crazy! Love it!
Its always interesting learning about the female form. Articles like these should be published more often. Thanks! :)
U still have a gspot without a cervix.
I find it's mainly the anatomy and the actual body parts used to ejaculate.
The g spot Is a set of glands above the vagina connected to the urethra (where u urinate) NOT the CERVIX.
Have worked with many women that believe this and many find they can
Ejaculate. Also clitoris is not removed during hysterectomy, although not the same type of orgasm, it's still excitable and has orgasmic outcomes when stimulated
l like it,l once thought l wasnt normal by ejaculting,nw lm happy to know that its very normal.
i am so amazed when i hear other woman talk about how they expierence orgasms and know where their g-spots are while i am totally clueless,its emabarrasing and frustrating because its not fun for me and my husband.everytime we get intimate i keep hoping that its die day but to my dissapointment it neva is.i am always stressed and wish i can get help so i can be able to have the full expierence and my husband's ego will be boosted because he feels like he can't satisfy me.
Dear MS Shy
You can contact me directly to refer you to somebody in your area who can help you to reach orgasm and get full enjoyment out of your sexual experience. We have helped many women like you.
elna.rudolph@intercare.co.za
Dear MS Shy
You can contact me directly to refer you to somebody in your area who can help you to reach orgasm and get full enjoyment out of your sexual experience. We have helped many women like you.
elna.rudolph@intercare.co.za
Hello,
Thank you for the article, it is most informative! I was still of the opinion that the G-spot is a myth.
I have never had an orgasm through penetration eventhough I enjoy it very much. Could it be because I have no clue where my G-spot is? Please help.
Mmmh, my kind of reading. @ Ms Shy, you should really get into your foreplay (taking your time and please be relaxed). I get orgasm and ejaculate in my sleep sometimes.
Dear G Spotless (love your name ;-)
Only about a third to half of all women can have an orgasm during penetration, so you are not alone! I think eventually all women could be taught how to do it, but there is no evidence for that. The trick is to be as close as possible to orgasm before you penetrate and not to forge the clitoris during penetration. You might still need direct clitoral stimulation during penetration - by letting him do it manually, you doing it yourself or by using a vibrator. Once you have had that first one, the next ones come much easier.
Hope that helsp!
Dr Elna Rudolph
My partner loves to make love to me in certain positions where i am 'stimulated' which makes me ejaculate. Very sexy.
female ejaculation is referred to as "squirting" right or is that something completely different? and if it is "squirting" is it true that all women have the ability to do it-with the right amount of stimulation?
the G-spot is situated on the upper part of the vigina.if you want to find it,just lubricate your finger and start the hunt.or find a man with a small-banana-shaped-curved penis to find it for you.
I was so embarrassed when I was intimate with my partner coz I ejaculated n didn't notice it until a lil later wen I saw a cup size ring on the bed
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wow - learned something know
Dear Anonymous070789
Yes, female ejaculation is called squirting, but No, not all women can do it.
One never knows what would happen with the right stimulation, but the physical tissue of the G-spot can not be found on all women. Only very recently the firts full G-spot was dissected from a female cadaver!
So dont feel bad if you cant, or if you can - both are absolutely normal!
Kind regards
Dr Elna Rudolph
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