Do clean your toy before and after use. To make this an easy transition, try Baby wipes, yes, those soft wipes for baby bottoms.

Do try new toys. Many types of stimulation work that you never thought of before. There are always new options on the market. For instance the We-Vibe is a new and innovative design that reaches the g-spot, vagina, labia an clitoris all in one shot.

Do use a toy that has varying speeds of vibration to avoid numbing. Single vibration toys are good if you know that particular sensation works for you. Most top of the line vibrators include variable speed controls.

Do have lube nearby. A dry toy can be a real turn off. Lubricant is a girl's best friend. And there are many to choose from. Durex has a wonderful range called Durex Play. However, their latest product to launch - Durex O gel - is a Yes Yes, Yes on your list.

Do talk about toys with your partner. Get over your inhibition. It can open up a whole world of "spicing up". Do focus on the clitoris. It's your most sure route to orgasm.

Try Duet Vibrating Cock Ring to get clitoral stimulation during intercourse.

Do try the G-Spot toys. More women are G-Spot sensitive than they know.

Do use a multi-purpose toy. Clitoral, vaginal and G-Spot orgasms? Bring it on! Dual purpose or rabbit vibrators are the wave of the future.

Do store your toy in a clean, dust-free, cool place. Take care of your toy and it will take care of you.
 

Don't buy an ugly toy (to you). Your sex toys are like lovers...you've got to be attracted to them. Try: Lelo Vibrators

Don't share toys without cleaning them or using a condom to cover. Infections are never fun.

Don't go from back to front with the same toy. Again, save yourself a trip to the gynaecologist.

Don't give up too early. If one type of stimulation is not working for you, switch positions and try, try again. Try a hands-free vibrator and use your hands for other activities.

Don't take other people's suggestions too seriously. Sex toys are extremely personal. One sex toy may be the best orgasm-producing device for one person and a complete failure for another. Listen to you friends/lovers, but decide for yourself.
   
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