slow down for better sex

Male sexual response consists of four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and refractory (when he rolls over afterwards). Most guys take the faster-than-a-speeding-bullet approach and crash through to orgasm, missing out on all of the pleasures that come earlier in the plot – particularly the plateau just before orgasm. Turn your Superman into Multiple Man: Stimulate him orally or manually, count to 10, and then stop. Now squeeze the head of his penis for five seconds. This forces the blood back down and delays orgasm. You'll help him enjoy the sensations of orgasm without him actually ejaculating.