Sex & Relationships

If your boudoir looks anything like ours, your bed sits amid cluttered nightstands, teetering stacks of books, overflowing laundry baskets and countless pairs of shoes. As a room that's meant to inspire sultry pillow talk and wild abandon, it's a total joke. That's why we enlisted psychologists and decorators to help us create the perfect booty chamber.

Customise A Playlist

"One of the easiest ways to set the mood is with the right music," says WH expert and clinical head of the Centre for Sexual Health in Pretoria, Elna Rudolph. "Take some time to make steamy playlists so that you're not scrambling through CDs in the heat of the moment." Match the genre to the mood you're in – and let the music build to the mood you want to reach.

Last updated: Fri, 2011-08-05 10:54

By BARRETT (not verified) on 2011-08-05 14:38

the biggest problem you show is the TV get rid of the thing. The room should be a nice colour you know calms both you down and dont worry about all the rubbish on walls etc. Is she expecting to admire them during sex? Then she will most certainly not be satisfied. Keep things simple and as little distractions as possible. My girlfriends has tried doing what you show and all it did was distract her. Now she enjoys it as we concentrate on each other not the decor.

By addie on 2012-04-25 00:02

Nice, I am already in to this type for transformation and I am not only referring to the bedroom. Do you also have some tips for a sexy bathroom? The bathroom is my favorite room, I've already set my eyes on some really nice small bathroom vanities, they would be such a great fit.