body language and what he's thinking

Once you’re engaged in conversation, he’ll ditch the king of the jungle act and slump forward, rounding his shoulders to appear smaller. “Slouching is a way for a man to seem more approachable to a woman,” Hogan says. “His posture says: ‘I’m on your level, let’s connect.’” And according to Fisher, his relaxed stance (otherwise known as “crouching”) says he’s vulnerable yet comfortable in your presence.